You might have heard others say love yourself first before entering into a relationship. Many of us enter into a relationship because we are attracted to the person. Being attracted is fine but if you are not happy with who you are as a individual, you will struggle emotionally. I understand that you probably do not want to be alone in this world but your overall happiness with yourself is important too.
If you struggle with how you feel about yourself such as, your appearance, how you laugh, or how you do things, you are not happy with yourself. And unless you change how you feel, you will not be happy with anyone. This goes back to changing your thoughts and mindset. For example; if you look at yourself in the mirror and think or say I look old, change that thought. If you plant that thought in your mind, it will lead to more negative thoughts.
Instead you can say, I might be older but I look good. When you plant that seed, it will grow into more movements where you will work even harder to feel even better about yourself. Our minds control a lot of how we live. Same as if you let the negative of what others say or do control how you feel, you will not be happy. Change that negative to something that will make you go in a better direction. Living a life with a mindset that brings more happiness takes work, but it can be done. You can do it if you work at it.
Until next time, have a wonderful day and God bless.